Hi guys big thanks for watching and great advice
Bear- you have gone beyond the call of duty

thanks for taking the time out to give such in depth reply, much appreciated,
1. more deliberate buy this i assume you mean put ALL the chord down at same time instead of the F A then the bare like i am doing, i suppose i just followed the same method as how the D chord was shown in the lesson or should that be deloberate as well ? my problem is that Neil maybe demonstrating a techniques in slow mo and i probably assume that is how it is ment to be done lol.
2 thumb posy is always a problem for me i am aware of it but i have lazy fingers and thumb that likes to sneak into comfy mode.
3.yes sometimes my fingers get stuck on the strings so i have to hurry. Noted...
4.yes i do have a metronome with dust on it, we dont like each other... to be honest and this is embarrassing i dont know how to use it

eg.. 4 beats does that mean i have to do 1 note per beat ?? 1234 Am bass pluck 1 appegios 2 3 4 5 6 or do u count them bass 1 2+3+4 next chord .... hope that makes sense.
5.I really appreciated 5 as i was one of those non players the problem is people like you (guitarists) make it look easy so its your fault

seriously though yes it is so hard and so frustrating and yes at times i am proud of my achievements then i get despondent again this guitar thing is giving me emotions like a woman lol. Humor i dont try to be funny it is just who i am i like to see the positives and funny side to things as edder vedder says "there is to much in this world to make me bleed" so i want to be a positive influence. thanks for your help u must get sick of helping us slow aussies out :blink:
thanks chas- metronome any advice on how to use it lol seriously straight struming im ok with but finger picking and little intros like the one on across the universe and two of us i get lost and dont know how to keep time, i can play along with neil fine when he uses his but on my own im hopeless
Marc- good tip i will try that out, my problem is i like to run before i can crawl
Rick- you see and no one pinged me for slouching

yes metronome is the common theme i am going to start a thread called help brad use a metronome thread.