Mike- You've got really light strings now at .010 gauge. I play with .012 and they are labelled "Light" so if I was you I wouldn't go any lighter. Plus I think the tone of many guitars suffers with strings that light.Wow I didn't know I was going to get so much help. Thanks everyone. I have an acoustic with a .10 guage E string and an electric with very small guage strings. The electric is the gentler of the two but other people play both of them and think they are fine. I like the suggestion of getting them professionally set up.
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Wrench, Ric and Jim have offered good advice which should help you a lot.
Good luck!