Fantastic question Nessa!

Nice way to kick-start the thought provoking forum threads again.
I haven't played with others live for a long, long, long time (well other that a few ukulele campfire song sessions in my lounge room). But, even when playing against a recorded track (e.g. a self collaboration) it's in large part about listening and adjusting as required. The obvious ones are:
- changes in tempo and keeping the right speed and linked into the other players, as already mentioned (I slowed down in a big way at one point in "Ain't no Sunshine" and had to do the same in the bass-line),
- keeping your volume appropriate so that you're not overpowering anyone or being too quiet,
- phrasing, especially while singing,
- trying to fill out the sound by playing important solos or other musical lines to keep it interesting and representative of the original (like the harmonica part in 'Heart of Gold').
I've actually noticed a lot of things you need to be aware of by watching the collaborations that have been uploaded on TG. For example Nessa, the way you were listening and adjusting your tempo and dynamics when you were accompanying Corina.
I think I said it last year, but this year I really need to find a way to play with others. I think it will help to consolidate my skills and really improve my motivation. Just campfire songs would be great, playing for fun and for the social aspects of it, well for fun.
BTW Al - you are not alone. I feel exactly the same and it is a major source of my lack of self-confidence in my guitar playing skills. It's been suggested to me that I need to play for fun a lot more and stuff that's easy too. I definitely aim to do that this year.
AcousticAl wrote:
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What was evident to me at the latest get-together was how few songs I actually have DOWN all the way through! That was one of my main goals when I joined TG-- was to not be a 'bits & pieces' player anymore.
So I need to revisit how I'm learning songs in general. I tend to work on one or two for a while- post a version of it- then forget about it. My resolution is to change that this year, and get more songs that I can PLAY IN MY SLEEP.
I was very impressed with how Chris played so many songs effortlessly over our time together. ...
Great question Ness. I look forward to reading everyone's responses.
Shel